Divorce is never easy—emotionally or legally. In the midst of all the stress and life changes, it’s easy to make decisions that can hurt your case, your finances, or even your future relationship with your children.
At Haugen Law Firm, P.C. we’ve helped countless clients navigate divorce in Texas. Here are some of the most common mistakes we see—and how to avoid them.
1. Acting Out of Emotion Instead of Logic
Divorce often brings anger, hurt, or betrayal. While those feelings are valid, letting emotions drive your decisions—like refusing to compromise or trying to “punish” your spouse—can lead to poor legal outcomes and unnecessary expense.
What to do instead: Work with a trusted attorney to focus on your long-term goals, not short-term revenge.
2. Hiding Assets or Income
It may be tempting to move money or underreport income, especially if you think your spouse is being unfair. But in Texas, hiding assets can backfire badly—resulting in court sanctions, an uneven property division, or damage to your credibility.
What to do instead: Be transparent with financial disclosures. Your attorney can help you protect your interests legally and ethically.
3. Ignoring the Best Interests of the Children
In child custody matters, Texas courts prioritize the best interest of the child—not what either parent "wants." Parents who try to manipulate, alienate, or control the child’s relationship with the other parent often hurt their own case.
What to do instead: Promote a healthy, cooperative parenting plan and put your child's needs first.
4. Posting on Social Media
Social media posts—even if “private”—can be used as evidence in court. A seemingly harmless post about a vacation, new purchase, or night out could raise questions about your finances, parenting, or behavior.
What to do instead: Stay off social media during your divorce, or at least assume everything you post could be read in court.
5. Not Understanding Community Property Rules
Texas is a community property state, meaning most assets and debts acquired during the marriage are split between spouses. Many people assume things like 401(k)s, business shares, or homes will remain theirs—only to be surprised in court.
What to do instead: Learn what’s considered community vs. separate property and work with an attorney to value and divide assets fairly.
6. Agreeing Too Quickly to “Get It Over With”
Some spouses give up too much—like custody rights or valuable property—just to end the divorce quickly. But once an order is signed, it can be very difficult (or impossible) to undo.
What to do instead: Take time to understand the long-term consequences of any settlement before agreeing.
7. Not Hiring the Right Attorney
Trying to handle a divorce alone or hiring an inexperienced lawyer can cost you far more in the long run. Family law in Texas is complex—especially when children, property, or conflict is involved.
What to do instead: Choose an experienced Texas family law attorney who listens, communicates clearly, and understands how to protect your goals.
Set Yourself Up for Success
Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle—or a disaster. By avoiding these common mistakes and working with the right legal team, you can get through the process with clarity, dignity, and a plan for what comes next.
Talk to a Texas Divorce Lawyer Today
At Haugen Law Firm, P.C., we’re proud to serve families and individuals across Denton, Collin, Cooke, Dallas, and Tarrant Counties with trusted legal guidance in family law, criminal defense, and estate planning. If you have questions about your legal rights or need personalized support, our dedicated team is here to help. Contact us today!