What to Bring to Your First Consultation with a Family Law Attorney

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Meeting with a family law attorney for the first time can feel overwhelming—especially if you’re dealing with divorce, custody, or other sensitive legal issues. One of the best ways to make the most of your consultation is to come prepared.

At Haugen Law Firm, P.C. we aim to make your initial meeting as productive and reassuring as possible. Bringing the right information and documents will help your attorney understand your situation, answer your questions clearly, and begin building a legal strategy tailored to your needs.

Here’s a helpful guide on what to bring to your first consultation with a family law attorney in Texas.

1. Identification and Contact Information

Start with the basics:

  • A valid photo ID (driver’s license or passport)
  • Full legal names, addresses, phone numbers, and emails for you and your spouse or the other party
  • Emergency contact (optional)

This helps your attorney open a client file and ensures proper communication.

2. Relevant Court Documents (If Any)

If there are any ongoing legal proceedings, bring:

  • Any petitions or responses already filed
  • Court orders (temporary or final)
  • Protective orders or restraining orders
  • Past judgments or modifications
  • Hearing notices or court dates

These documents help your attorney understand the procedural status of your case and any deadlines.

3. Financial Information

In family law cases—especially divorce, child support, or spousal maintenance—your financial picture matters. Bring:

  • Recent pay stubs (last 2–3 months)
  • Tax returns (last 2 years)
  • Bank account statements
  • Credit card statements
  • Mortgage documents
  • Retirement account or investment statements
  • A list of monthly expenses and debts
  • Business financials, if you or your spouse owns a business

This information helps your attorney assess property division, support obligations, and more.

4. Marriage or Relationship Information

If you’re dealing with divorce, separation, or custody, gather:

  • Your marriage certificate
  • Any premarital or postmarital agreements (prenup/postnup)
  • Information about previous marriages or divorces
  • Date of separation (if applicable)

These details help your attorney determine what’s considered community vs. separate property under Texas law.

5. Information About Your Children

If children are involved, bring:

  • Their full names, birthdates, and schools
  • Existing custody, visitation, or support agreements
  • A proposed schedule for custody or visitation
  • Medical or special needs information
  • Childcare or school costs

If abuse, neglect, or substance use is a concern, bring any documentation or evidence that supports your concerns.

6. A List of Questions or Concerns

Come prepared with a written list of questions you want answered. Common questions include:

  • What are my rights in this situation?
  • What’s the likely outcome based on my case?
  • How long will this process take?
  • What are the legal fees and billing practices?

Don’t hesitate to ask about strategy, timelines, or worst-case scenarios. A good attorney will walk you through each with clarity.

7. Notes or Timeline of Events

If there’s a history of abuse, conflict, or key events that led to the legal issue, write out a timeline or summary of what happened. This helps your attorney quickly understand the context of your case.

8. Any Evidence That May Support Your Case

Depending on your situation, helpful evidence might include:

  • Text messages, emails, or voicemails
  • Photos or videos
  • Social media posts
  • Police reports or CPS records
  • Witness names and contact info

Don’t worry if you don’t have everything perfectly organized—just bring what you can, and your attorney will guide you from there.

What to Expect at Your First Consultation

At Haugen Law Firm P.C., your consultation is confidential, respectful, and focused entirely on you. We will:

  • Listen to your story and concerns
  • Review any documents or evidence
  • Identify your legal options
  • Answer your questions honestly
  • Explain next steps and potential fees

You won’t be pressured to make decisions on the spot—but you will leave informed and empowered.

Get the Guidance You Deserve

Your first meeting with a family law attorney is the foundation for your legal journey. Coming prepared helps you get the most out of your time—and ensures your lawyer can start building a strategy that protects what matters most.

At Haugen Law Firm, P.C., we’re proud to serve families and individuals across Denton, Collin, Cooke, Dallas, and Tarrant Counties with trusted legal guidance in family law, criminal defense, and estate planning. If you have questions about your legal rights or need personalized support, our dedicated team is here to help. Contact us today! 

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