In today’s digital world, communication goes far beyond phone calls and in-person visits. For many families involved in divorce or custody cases, electronic communication has become an important part of maintaining the parent-child relationship.
At Haugen Law Firm, we often receive questions about how electronic communication works in Texas family law cases, when courts allow it, and what parents should know about its limits.
What Is Electronic Communication?
Electronic communication is any contact between a parent and child that takes place through technology. This can include:
- Phone call
- Text messages
- Emails
- Video calls (such as FaceTime, Zoom, or Skype)
- Messaging through co-parenting or child-safe apps
It allows parents and children to stay connected when they’re not physically together.
Why Courts May Order Electronic Communication
Texas courts may include electronic communication in custody orders for several reasons:
Long-Distance Parenting: When parents live far apart, video calls and texts help children maintain regular contact.
Non-Custodial Parent Access: A parent who doesn’t have primary custody may use electronic communication to stay involved in the child’s daily life.
Child’s Best Interest: Judges recognize that frequent, positive contact with both parents generally benefits children.
Limits and Conditions
Electronic communication is helpful, but it is not a substitute for in-person visitation. Courts typically set guidelines such as:
Reasonable Times: Calls should not disrupt the child’s school, sleep, or activities.
Supervision: In some cases, electronic communication may need to be supervised to ensure it remains appropriate.
Respectful Use: Neither parent should interfere with the child’s right to communicate with the other parent.
If parents can’t agree on how and when communication happens, the court may set specific schedules or conditions.
Benefits of Electronic Communication
- Strengthens the bond between parent and child
- Provides reassurance during transitions or long absences
- Allows parents to stay involved in schoolwork, activities, and daily routines
- Can reduce conflict by creating structured opportunities for connection
Challenges to Keep in Mind
- Overuse may create tension between parents
- Children may feel pressured if communication isn’t child-focused
- Technical issues can sometimes cause frustration
- Disagreements may arise over timing or duration of calls
Why Legal Guidance Matters
Every family is different, and electronic communication should be tailored to fit the needs of the child and the co-parenting arrangement. An experienced family law attorney can help:
- Ensure electronic communication is included in custody orders, if appropriate
- Set clear expectations about timing, frequency, and methods
- Protect the child’s best interests while supporting parental rights
Moving Forward With Confidence
Electronic communication is an increasingly important part of family law in Texas. While it doesn’t replace in-person parenting time, it helps children maintain meaningful connections with both parents.
At Haugen Law Firm, we help parents in Denton County, Collin County, and throughout North Texas create custody arrangements that reflect modern parenting realities while protecting what matters most the well-being of your child.